"The more things changed, the more they stay the same."This perfectly summarizes today, as it marks the 10th anniversary of my mom’s passing.
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| Mommy, 1954-2009 |
In the past decade, I've went through quite a few changes. For example:
- I’ve worked for 5 different companies. (And if things work out soon, 6 companies!)
- I’ve moved from Seattle to the Bay Area.
- I’ve lived in 6 different homes. (1 house, 5 apartments)
- I've had 2 more surgeries to control those pesky fibroids. (Bye bye, uterus!)
- I’ve gained 2 more loving siblings: sister-in-law Annie (Richard’s wife) and brother-in-law Andrew (Bonnie’s husband).
- I’ve fallen out of love - and back in love again.
- I have 3 healthy, adorable (in their own ways!) nephews: Cyrus, Julius and Connor.
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| Auntie V with Cyrus (7), Julius (5) and Connor (9 months) |
- I still mourn.
- I still miss her every day.
- I still tear up when someone brings her up in casual conversation.
- I still chuckle when I remember her contagious laughter as she share stories from her daily routines.
- I still hear her words of encouragement as I face occasional challenges. (She would say in Cantonese, “The ship will straighten its course once it gets to the bridge.”)
- I still ask her what she would do when I agonized over life’s crossroads. (“Don’t worry, be happy!,” she would remind me in English.)
No matter how many more days, months or years may pass, I know I will always feel the warmth of her love.
I love you, Mommy… 💓
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| Mommy and me (2009) |
